Emilee Brewer
Have you ever seen two dogs going at it, and you think, “I really hope they’re just playing and not fighting”? Well, you’re not alone! For those more rambunctious dogs, it can honestly be hard to tell the difference between rough-housing and actual fighting. However, I’m here to provide you with some signs to look out for and when to step in.
The most clear sign of playtime is the play bow. A dog will keep its front end down and lift its hind end in the air. Sometimes they’ll stomp their front feet on the ground to initiate play. They also “fall down" a lot. Two of my daycare dogs, Daisy and Bear, are a perfect example of this. Daisy plays rough. She bites and barks and “attacks”, but Bear absolutely loves it. He’s constantly throwing himself on the ground so she can get him. Showing their belly is a huge sign of trust and playing. The stomach is a very vulnerable place, so displaying it shows they want more.
Another sign of play, believe it or not, is sneezing! Another daycare dog, Larkin, is excellent at doing this. Larkin can be a little mean sometimes (she knows who she likes and who she doesn’t. Can't blame her), so I have to really watch to make sure she’s actually playing and not bullying her friends. But the biggest thing I look for when she’s playing is the sneezing. She could be snarling and nipping, but she throws a sneeze in there, and I know all is well and she’s having fun. She's similar to Daisy in how rough she plays, so it's important to look for these signs to make sure everyone is safe.
Another sign I personally look for is if the dogs separate. Dogs also get tired, and they can get cranky. I want to make sure they aren’t getting on each other’s nerves. Do they stop and take a break from playing? If one dog stops engaging, does the other leave them alone? And if not, do they accept the correction from their friend to go away for a minute? Some dogs like Oliver can go, go, go, but others like Reaves want to play and then take a break. Each dog is unique, and I want to make sure everyone is having fun at their own pace.
So, how to tell when a dog is fighting? There can be overlap between playful body language and fighting body language, like snarling and growling, so it’s really important to know what to look for.
I know my daycare dogs pretty well. It’s all about knowing their body language and personal stress signals. Daisy has a very specific bark she does when she’s getting overwhelmed. As soon as she does that, I distract her friend and let her play on her own so she can calm down. You also need to look for tense body language. This includes a tucked tail, stiff movements, hackles raised, and snarling. Once I see any of these, I separate the two dogs and let them chill for a few moments before they can play again. Clarke is great about giving warning signals when she gets tired of another dog. She gives a low grumble and a slight snarl. If the other dog continues, she’ll give a quick snip to correct them and then immediately come to me so I can make the “aggressor” go away. I’ve got several dogs that do great at giving corrections, which signals to me that I need to pay extra close attention to make sure nothing happens and get some space between the two.
Most of the time, when a dog gets grumpy during play time, it’s a quick correction or maybe a slight scuffle. Those typical resolve on their own and don’t result in any injury except maybe a bruised ego. A scuffle is usually just noisy with a couple of nips. It’s like when your sibling flicks your arm because you annoyed them. Everyone’s grumpy, but your parents don’t have to ground you. Usually, when scuffles happen, I can just raise my voice a little bit, and the dogs will stop. No harm, no foul. But there is the rare occasion that it develops into a full-blown fight, and that is scary. Fights can be quick, but the chances of injury go way up. It’s important to remain calm and act quickly. As soon as a fight breaks out, I radio for help and try to get the dogs to separate. Never place yourself between the fight or get near their heads or neck. I’ve learned that the hard way and still have the scars to prove it. A good way to separate fighting dogs is to “wheelbarrow” them. You grab their hind legs and toss their little butt to the side. It distracts them from the fight and enables you to leash them and get them away from each other.
Preventing a fight will always be better than breaking up one. I keep a close eye on body language and vocal signals to make sure everyone is having fun. It’s not fair for one dog to be enjoying themselves a lot more than the other; I want the fun to be equal!
